Sex With Emily (general)

Dr. Sadie Allison, Pleasure Coach and author of best sellers Tickle His Pickle, Ride 'em Cowgirl, and Tickle my Tush, gives hands-on sex tips. Her books are extremely straight-forward and are filled with illustrations on how to pleasure your partner with proven techniques. Get her books at Good Vibrations: and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off (some exclusions apply). Expect detailed instructions on how to give a blow job, how to find her "other" erogenous, how to give a prostate massage, how to pleasure his taint, how to have good anal sex, how to handle his balls, how to talk dirty, and how to give women orgasms. Lots of them. Plus, the best positions for her orgasmic pleasure.

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My new intern who has never had an orgasm talks about her sexual experiences thus far. I give her (and all the men in her rotation) advice on how to achieve orgasm. And not just any orgasm- a delicious cocktail of clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Women are sold the fantasy from the time they're young that "someday my prince will come and I'll come too." Forget the prince in shining armor and get a shiny new vibrator. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: and get a vibrator for yourself or the woman you're trying to please. Also, why does everyone break up during the holidays? Why doesn't everyone just masturbate all the time? And how to introduce anal sex into your relationship without being a pain in the ass. Special Discounts: use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at, and coupon code EMILY for 20% off my Aromatherapy Massage Candle and DownUnder Comfort at Also, check out my new vibrator store:

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This year the incredibly sexy Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston are hosting the AVN awards, where I will be giving the keynote speech. AVN is the Oscars of porn and both adies are nominated for best female performer of the year. I'll be giving away tickets to the AVN show on January 18th in Las Vegas (worth $200 a piece) . Follow me on Twitter @sexwithemliy to participate in the upcoming contest. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Check out my new vibrator store: Now back to the porn stars: Chanel Preston gives advice on how to have extremely pleasurable anal sex. She would know, anal sex is the easiest way for her to orgasm (every man's dream). Samantha Saint is more of a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl. She shares how she orgasms through clitoral stimulation and of course, the Original Magic Wand from Good Vibrations (go to and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off the greatest vibrator of all-time.) Samantha Saint, Chanel Preston, and I discuss how to mix up your orgasms to have more powerful and consistent orgasms. One way to make her orgasm is through oral sex. The girls discuss cunnilingus tips, including how to suck and push on her clitoris. The conversation quickly switches to penises and how to give the best blow job while cupping the balls. The porn stars describe the cup, twist, and suck method for a job well done.Finally, Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston answer the question: what is one thing men could improve on to be better in bed? There answer isn't what you expect. They don't actually want to have sex like a porn star. 

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Some women can have orgasms from breast stimulation alone. The same part of the brain that brings sensations to the vagina brings sensation to the breasts. I'll show you how to give her immense pleasure with nipple nibbling, breast cupping, light pinching, and licking. Don't twist her nipples, jiggle them, or slap them, unless she's into that sort of thing. It's time to play with breasts like a grownup (motor-boating being a sometimes fun exception). I also answer an email from a guy who can't orgasm during sex (it can happen to guys too!) and a man who wants his wife to be more adventurous in bed. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Check out my new vibrator store:

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Sex has changed dramatically in the 21st century. Midwestern housewives are reading 50 Shades of Grey and half of all women own vibrators. Social media and online dating has created a lot more dating options, making monogamy a less desirable option. People are getting married later and more and more couples are making up their own relationship rules. It's a crazy, exciting world out there. Here's how to survive 21st Century sex with your dignity and hopefully an orgasm...or three. Special Discounts: Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.comEmily also answers listener's emails about telling white lies, office affairs, and choosing between the stable relationship and the romantic fling. 

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Tonight’s special guest is Susan Pinsky, the First Lady of Loveline, and host of the new podcast Calling out with Susan Pinsky. Susan gets intimate about her sex life with her husband, Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr.Drew on Call. Although they have an amazing sex life now, it wasn’t always that way. After having triplets(!), Susan completely lost her sex drive. Her hormone levels plummeted after giving birth and she couldn’t figure out how to reinvigorate her sex life. Her problems were exacerbated with the onset of early menopause. Susan shares her journey to reclaim her sex drive through bioidentical hormones. Finally she found the solution that worked for her and shares how she got her sex drive back right when they received the devastating news of Dr. Drew’s prostate cancer diagnosis. We even talk to Susan’s doctor, Dr. Jennifer Park in Pasadena who specializes in hormone pellet therapy. Mismatched libidos is one of the most common problems in relationships. One partner is enthusiastic about being sexually intimate while the other is subdued. And this takes a toll on the relationship. 48% of people say they are satisfied with their sex life. That’s not enough people. There are many reasons why people’s libido change over the years: Stress Depression Age Lifestyle choices, including: alcohol, drugs, sleep, diet Medication, including antidepressants Lack of sexual enjoyment during sex And of course, kids. You’re bound to fall into one of these categories at some point in your life. Susan and I discuss what you can do if your partner wants more or less sex than you. We end the show with a special call from Susan’s psychic Rebecca Fearing. She gives me an amazing psychic reading on my love life and things to come in the future. Use Coupon Code EMILY for 20% off at Emily & Tony, coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some exclusions apply), and coupon code Emily25 for 35% off at Crazy Girl. Check out Promescent for lasting longer in bed. 

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Manscaping is perhaps the most underrated beauty ritual. No Shave November is coming to a close, gentleman. While women are told over and over again to have hairless bodies, most men traipse around like hairy beasts.A man might say his hair makes him masculine and rugged. Don’t get me wrong, I want to pet Jon Hamm’s chest hair all night, but a lot of women aren’t into hairy balls.I’m not saying you should shave yourself bare or shave an arrow leading to your penis (please don’t), but I recommend spending time taming the mane and manscaping.In the show I interview Anthony Sosnick,Founder and CEO of Anthony Brands, on the best manscaping techniques, from trimming to shaving. Also, what horrible thoughts do men think of to prevent premature ejaculation? Also, will letting a woman paint your toenails help you get lucky? Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily & Tony.

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BDSM means six things: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. My guest, fellow sex podcaster Sex Nerd Sandra, and I are ironing out the kinks in your relationship, whether you’re new to the BDSM or waiting for the perfect time to whip out the ropes and assless leather. First, we discuss women having less orgasms than men during one-night-stands. SHOCKER. We talk about why women aren’t orgasming like crazy, and why some guys don't know how to please women... yet. I know guys talk about their penis a lot, but how often do they talk to their friends about how to pleasure a woman? Le sigh, if only all women could orgasm at the drop of a hat or click of a camera. Wait, there is a actually a woman who insta-orgasms when she hears the click of a camera. She must really like taking selfies. If you can’t give a woman an orgasm by whispering sweet nothings in her ear, we will tell you how to do it. Next, Sandra and I take callers and give our advice about BDSM and humping inanimate objects. Then we answer the question, should I stay with my boyfriend even though he loves me a lot more than I love him? When should you cut your ties... and when should you get tied up? Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: BDSM with Guest Sex Nerd Sandra If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent, Crazy Girl, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily and Tony. Use coupon code EMILY25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some restrictions apply).

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Pro Dominatrix and Author Jaeleen Bennis shows you the ropes on bondage play. She mixes massage with kink, showing couples how to have more adventurous sex. She created the practice of Bondassage, which mixes erotic massage with bondage. Start by lighting up my Emily & Tony Massage Candle (when lit it turns into the most luxurious, warm massage oil) and pour it onto your partners body. Relax them with a back massage... and then the real fun begins. Bring out the straps and floggers, and start exploring your partner's erogenous zones. We explain how you can tell if your partner likes what you're doing. Hint: If their toes are moving around like crazy, you're doing something right. Jaeleen also gives tips on how to give men an anal massage. Gentleman, it's time you invited someone into your backdoor. Remember to always establish a safe word like "pickle" for when things get out of hand.

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So you want to have a threesome? I'm laying down the law on how to do it right. It has to be her idea, and I'll tell you how to make that happen. Do not casually suggest that you have a threesome with her best friend. She's not going to like it. If you want to have a threesome, you must be extremely strategic and cunning. I'll show you how to do it without having it end in a jealous hot mess. Next, I talk about men who prefer to wear women's panties (have no shame, women's undies are just better). Then I answer the question of who I'd rather sleep with, Mike Catherwood or Dr.Drew? And lastly, I tell all the ladies how to have an incredible orgasm during sex, because that's what I'm here for. If women start having more orgasms, I know I'm doing my job. Enjoy your weekend whether you are having a Menage a Trois, exploding with orgasms, or traipsing around in ladies underwear.

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