Sex With Emily

Emily has special guest Candida Royalle on the show, a sex-positive pioneer in the adult film industry and the original inventor of couples’ erotica. They cover a variety of topics, including Candida’s ground breaking company, Femme Productions, the ever-changing adult industry, the benefits of couples’ porn and tips to becoming sexually empowered.

From female insecurities to male’s penis complexes, Emily and Candida discuss recurring conflicts surrounding mainstream pornography. Men love it, but their often girlfriends hate it, so how do you make everyone happy? The women weigh in on why watching porn together might just be the solution to your porn problems. And thanks to Candida, there is erotica out there that couples’ can both enjoy!

Candida tells us about her journey from on-screen star to a female-friendly filmmaker. How did this sexy starlet with a hardcore art habit turn into one of the first female porn directors? She describes the perfect storm that led to the creation of Femme Productions, erotica with a plot, a story-line and positive sex role-modeling.

The two also touch on the topic of sexual empowerment: What is it and how can more women get it? They answer the question all women need to know: How DO you tell a naked man what to do? For starters, you’re not directing traffic! The duo gives scripts to get what you want in the bedroom. Also, Emily helps a listener with her sexual confidence and Candida shares an upcoming project that’s close to her heart: 'While You Were Gone: the Untold Story of Candida Royalle’.

From sex toys to fantasies to the one thing that men and women REALLY want sexually, Emily and Candida have tips to help you embrace your sexuality, and take control of your sex life. All this and more in the latest Sex With Emily podcast.

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This week’s show is all about the secret to your sexual powers, your sex drive! Emily talks about how to get the amount of sex you crave and what to do when your libido takes a dive. She covers some of the lesser known sex issues, including a woman with a secret porn habit, a few ladies whose husbands aren’t into sex, and a man who divorces his wife over her insatiable sexual appetite.


Throughout the show, Emily tackles common misconceptions and gives you the real sex drive facts. Whether you’re male or female, older or younger, you can have a fulfilling sex life. Just commit to a sex date and make it happen.


Emily explains why you must know your relationship limits: How do you know when to call it quits? She advises a listener with a stagnant sex life, and helps a woman whose post-baby sex life is less than satisfactory.


From mismatched libidos to mismatched desires to the best ways to spice up your married sex life, this episode addresses the most common sex drive challenges and answers a few unexpected questions! Don’t miss out on the latest Sex With Emily podcast.

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Do you really want to send that nude selfie? If you don’t want the “The Fappening” happening to you, you better tune in.  Emily and Samantha Schacher from Dr. Drew HLN dive right into the mass exposure of A-List celebrity nude pictures hacked from the cloud and what we can all learn from this debacle.

With our heads buried in our phones, have we become social media zombies? Samantha tells the story of how she literally ran smack dab into her husband when they first met, but if she had been on her phone, she might have missed the encounter all together.

Samantha gives sage advice about tough times, dry spells and how to keep the passion alive in marriage, even when you own a business together. Sometimes fighting is a necessity to reach the next level of intimacy in your relationship.

A caller wants to know why he can’t seem to pick-up women and it probably has to do with his opening line. Emily tells him how to turn it around.

A listener writes in confused about a “Friends with Benefits” relationship while another listener with pre-existing self-esteem issues has a bodybuilder boyfriend who’s preying on her insecurities. If you want to know how to date with dignity in the modern age of nudies, stale pick up lines and casual hook ups, tune in now.

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In today’s Podcast, Emily and Anderson are teaming up to help you succeed in the dating game, and satisfy your sexual needs! They answer listener emails, cover some of the do’s and don’ts of dating, and address some common dating misconceptions.

Before they jump into some sex in the news, Emily has some news of her own. She’s ready to take her own advice and jump back into dating, which means you can look forward to more tales from the Emily dating files. Speaking of which, Emily recounts her most recent (and completely bizarre) blind date experience, which leads her to some key advice for what NOT to do on a date.

This Podcast answers some major dating questions: How important are looks, really? How do you impress the ladies? And what state has the best potential for finding you next hookup? They’ve got the tips, and then some.

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Today’s episode answers the age old dilemma for men and women: How can I enjoy a more fulfilling sex life? Flooded by listener emails about dissatisfying sex lives, today’s show focuses on the “orgasm gap” between men and women.

Men tend to arrive to the party earlier than women (on average) so how do we close this gap so everyone can have their fair share of orgasms? Women can have multiple orgasms, so why do men have 3 orgasms for every 1 that women have?

So what is the exact definition of Premature Ejaculation (PE)? In the studio contributing to the dialogue along with Anderson is Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, the only FDA approved treatment for PE.

Emily and Jeff define the difference between PE, ED  and how to know what’s going on with your situation. Jeff divulges his fascinating journey to launching the Promescent, and the personal and tragic story about the doctor who created this treatment for his patients.

Emily shares the news about the innovative nail polish that  thwarts predators by detecting date rape drugs. With 1 in 5 women being sexualy assulted in their lives, it’s imperative to know how to better protect your wife, sisters and friends.

A gay caller is concerned about his future and wants to know if he should start dating women to have a more “normal” lifestyle. Can you really switch horses in the middle of the stream?


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Emily shares four important steps for overcoming jealousy. You can get past jealousy in most situations if you can let go of your insecurities. (Unless they really are cheating on you with that young thing down the street).


  • Find out why she’s really moaning during sex. Is it because you’re a sex God? Or is she just faking it? Do shiest people really moan the loudest?
  • Is there a platonic dating site for those who don’t want to get down? What if you just want to ride bikes with someone instead of riding that someone?
  • What do say on your first online dating message (no, “hey baby I want to wear you like a crown” is not a good first message. Nice try).
  • How to deal with body image issues, because you’re fabulous and everyone should know it. Start walking around the house and winking at yourself in the mirror!
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This show is all about having great sex and great relationships, no matter what you’re packing down below. Emily and Anderson swap sexting stories, answer listener emails, discuss topics such as lingerie, lesbians and what NOT to do at a strip club.


Emily opines about the rising popularity of dick pics: Is this the new American pastime? Or just a frisky form of digital foreplay?

The two also discuss the latest sex in the news stories, including a man with no penis who has the secret to sexual intimacy, and a man who called the cops when a stripper wouldn’t have sex with him. Then they give advice on an array of topics, from big penis problems to sex toys to stamina.

Whether you have a big penis, a shy penis or no penis at all, this Podcast gives tips to improve your sexual intimacy and help you have better sex in your relationships. Don’t miss out!

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Happy Anal Pleasure Month! This show is dedicated to helping you explore the world of pleasure located right at your backdoor! Whether you’re male, female, single or in a relationship, gay or straight, this podcast addresses your questions and helps you to face your backdoor fears! Along with her trusty assistant, Emily provides tips and tricks on how to make anal sex a fun, pleasurable time for everyone! Also on the show, master of prostate play, Dr. Charlie Glickman, calls in to give his his expert opinion, and provide a male perspective, on anal pleasure for men of all sexual orientations.

From “anal breathing” to porn to the importance of foreplay, this Podcast touches on all the hot backdoor topics! Don’t miss out!

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On this podcast we have the tattoo’d darling of the adult industry, Miss Joanna Angel, back in the studio to educate us on all things SEX. Joanna shares tips learned on the job, from tricks to taking the sexiest selfies to how to make a woman REALLY moan!

Joanna and Emily talk firsts: First sexual encounters, first orgasms, first girl crushes and more! They swap stories of one-night-stands gone wrong, and sex so bad, it makes you wish you had stayed home and ordered a pizza!

What’s this sexy lady’s favorite porn to shoot? Well, she really can’t resist a nice, thick.. PLOT!

They also answer listeners emails: How do you tell your guy he’s bad in  bed? They also help one listener take control of her own sexual destiny, and cultivate confidence in the bedroom. Not getting the sex you want? Joanna’s advice: “Sit on his face!”

This show addresses the hard-hitting questions: What’s so sexy about a girl with tattoos? What’s the recipe for a really GOOD threesome? And what makes Joanna a “bad bisexual”? All this and more in the most recent installment of Sex With Emily!

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Today’s show is all about thinking outside of the sexual box, and here to help is owner of the Moonlite Bunny Ranch and all-around sexual dynamo, Dennis Hof! Along with beautiful Bunny, Miss Ava Adora, Emily leads Dennis through a lively discussion on sex, legal prostitution, and how to really please a woman - and that’s just the tip!

From a self-described sexual square to the Cathouse King, Dennis shares his epic journey that led him to become one of the most successful and knowledgeable men in the legal prostitution industry! He tells us how he came to purchase the infamous Nevada brothel (a story involving comedian Andy Kaufman) and turned it into an empire with his pleasure-based business model.

Ava explains how a little case of identity theft brought her from college graduation to the Bunny Ranch, and discloses some of her most memorable sexual experiences, on and off the ranch. She also shares her secret to the art of sexual negotiation, which is like any other business deal, except it ends in great sex!

Next, Emily and Dennis talk about the importance of “effing communication”, and how you have to TALK about the sex you want to actually GET the sex you want. Dennis discloses his best tips and tricks for how to REALLY please a woman and Ava tell us why Dennis is the best lover she’s ever had (just a hint: 37 orgasms). You're going want to hear what this guy has to say!

They bust the common stereotypes surrounding the world’s oldest profession, and touch on the hot topic of what’s on the menu at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch! Want to know what a "Viagra Party" is? Or what goes on if you order the "Asian wet room?" In this super-sexy episode, nothing is off limits!

Want to know more about what goes on inside the Moonlite Bunny Ranch? Catch a new episode of the hit series Cathouse, premiering August 14th at 11pm PST on HBO!

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