Sex With Emily

With January 1st just around the corner, it’s time to start lining up all your sex and dating resolutions for the new year — How can you be the best lover you can be in 2016? Whether you’re single or in a relationship, today’s podcast provides tips to help you handpick your goals for a year of better sex and love, and even help you accomplish them.

From making dating your second job to creating and conquering your sexual bucket list, Emily goes over her sexiest resolution ideas for couples and singles alike to help you turn up the heat, both in your love life and in the bedroom, for 2016. Plus, she and Anderson answer your emails on bad relationship patterns, multiple orgasm roadblocks and casual dating with multiple partners.


Today’s show is all about starting anew in your sex and dating life. From things you’d love to leave behind (like blackout sex) to things you’re looking forward to (like multiple orgasms) this show covers all your new year’s bases.

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In this podcast, Emily is joined by married couple and real-life swingers Holli & Michael! This sexy twosome is used to sharing all the intimate details of living the “lifestyle” on their number one Playboy Radio show SWING, and today they’re bringing all their romantic and sexual wisdom to the Sex With Emily studio.

Emily and the pair talk tips for healthy relationships and healthy threesomes, discuss how to squash jealousy for good and explain how to go from ‘icy to spicy’ in the bedroom. The three also answer your emails on unsatisfying sex lives, making it work with a selfish lover and finding the perfect “unicorn” to make your menage-a-trois dreams come true.


Whether you’re looking for ways to improve your communication skills or hop on the non-monogamy train, this podcast is sure to teach you a thing or two to help you improve your sex life and love life! Don’t miss it…

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Have the stresses of the season put a damper on your sex drive? On today’s show, Emily is full of advice to help you de-stress and sexually connect during the hectic holidays. Whether you’re single or in a committed relationship, she reminds us why it’s important to prioritize pleasure, maintain intimacy with your partner and treat yourself to something special this time of year. She also answers your emails on the best sex toys for holiday gifting, escaping extramarital affairs and unearthing elusive orgasms.


Holidays can be taxing, and can often feel like more trouble than they’re worth, but fear not! In this podcast, Emily has all the helpful hints and valuable tools you need to keep your stress level low and your sex life hot this winter. Tune in!

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On today’s podcast, Emily and Menace are tackling your top sex and relationship questions. Whether you’re looking to explore new bedroom activities, are feeling cheated by your partner’s oral sex embargo or are trying to channel your inner sex goddess, they cover the many ways to better communicate your sexual needs to your partner. They also tackle a question on lady-scaping — Do men really trip out over a little down-there stubble?

Also, a Sex in the News story on mistress-shaming opens up a discussion on the recent rise in infidelities. Are daters getting more unfaithful or are there just more ways to get caught? Menace and Emily debate how social media is contributing to the cheating curve, and Menace explains why the iCloud is a cheater’s worst enemy.


From oral sex ultimatums to bedroom deal breakers, this podcast helps you navigate the many pitfalls that couples encounter on the road to sexual satisfaction. Learn how to open up the sex conversation with your partner and find out why cheaters truly never prosper in this episode of Sex With Emily.

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With the holidays just around the corner, it’s the time of the season to think of our loved ones… or lack thereof, as the case may be. In this podcast, Emily and Producer Madison are taking to your emails and answering some of your top sex and relationship questions to help you get to where you want to be in your love and sex life.

For all you online daters out there, how do you handle getting ghosted by a seemingly promising prospect? And for those already in a relationship, what’s the best way to get your partner to turn up the heat in the bedroom? Emily and Madison help these listeners master the intricacies of communication and find new methods for sexual fulfillment, whether it’s through rougher sex or a lesser-known fetish. They also discuss the common issue of wandering minds in couples that have settled down with their first love.

This show fires on all cylinders of sex and relationship issues. From first dates to first loves to urethral sounding and more, today’s podcast is sure to teach you something you didn’t know before. Don’t miss it!

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‘Tis the season for giving and in this week’s show, Emily and her team are here to help you select the sexiest items to give every “special someone” on your list. Whether you’re shopping for a toy for him, searching for the perfect present for her, or are looking for something you both can share, this holiday gift guide has the perfect mix of products you’ll need to keep things hot through those cold winter months, and every month that follows! We’ve also got some small yet sexy toys and products to share to help you give and get the gift of pleasure, no matter what your shopping budget may be.

If you’re tired of wrapping up socks and sweaters, it’s time to mix things up and give your loved ones something they least expect and most desire. From sexy stocking stuffers to Sybians to stamina-training Fleshlights this holiday gift guide has a little sultry something for everyone on your shopping list. Don’t miss it!

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On today’s show, Emily welcomes sex shop staffers Kate and McKenna to the studio to share secrets, hacks and tricks of the trade from their experience working in the sex toy industry.

With the holidays just around the corner, you might be considering making some sexy purchases but don’t know where to start. McKenna, Kate and Emily are here to help you find the hottest toys for the season whether you’re looking for yourself, for your partner or something for the two of you to enjoy together. From the clitoris-sucking Womanizer to wearable vibrators, penis rings and more, the ladies clue you in on the best buys to aid you in your bedroom adventures and clue you in on some common sex toy misconceptions and mistakes that users make.

From sexpert favorites to teledildonics to the smartest sex toy hacks you’ve ever heard, this show is all about pleasure products and how they can enhance and amplify your sex life. Whether you’re a sex toy collector or a newbie, this show is jam packed with important information you don’t want to miss!

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In this throwback podcast from 2013, Emily and Menace are here to help you discover new ways to experience pleasure that you might not have thought of before. Whether you’re having difficulty climaxing coitally or communicating your sexual concerns, Emily has answers for your every sex issue!

From nipple nibbling to breast cupping to light pinching and licking, Emily provides detailed directions on how you (or your partner) can achieve the elusive breastgasm. It might take practice, but it’s worth every tickle and flick! She and Menace also answer an email from an expert-level masturbator who has found himself unable to orgasm during sex, and help another listener step up his sexual communication with his wife of 17 years.

From phantom orgasms to nipple orgasms to self-induced orgasms, this classic show is firing on all climactic cylinders. Learn some new tricks and tips for upping your O game in this classic Sex With Emily episode.

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In the newest Sex With Emily podcast, we’re talking about how to find the happiness you’ve been seeking in your relationships, your sex life and, most importantly, in yourself! Emily opens up about two practices she feels passionately about that can enhance your overall wellness, and tackles your emails on mismatched libidos, pegging and happy endings.

Erotic massage parlors: Socially acceptable or totally illegal? Emily lays down the law on the topic of paying for “happy endings” and shares an unsettling news story about a disgruntled customer’s rash reaction to a parlor’s “no rub and tug” policy.

Then it’s onto your emails. What do you do if you and your significant other have disappointingly dissimilar sex drives? How do you bring up a new backdoor fetish to your “mostly vanilla” sex partner? Emily sheds light on how to bridge difficult communication gaps in your relationship and discusses the importance of finding a happy medium that leaves both parties sexually satisfied.

From shady sex parlors (which are still illegal) to kinky sex fantasies to tips for having the uncomfortable sex conversation, this show has a little something for everyone! Don’t miss it…

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This special Thanksgiving throwback podcast from 2014 is all about strengthening your relationship through gratitude. Emily teaches you the importance of appreciating your partner, not just for Thanksgiving, but all year around. Between talk of Thanksgiving plans and one night stands, Emily shares some of the things she is most grateful for and reminds us why we all should be thankful for sex.

Then, get ready for a lesson in partner appreciation. Emily explains how little things, like saying thank you, offering a  simple compliment or making tiny sacrifices can go a long way with your significant other. She and Anderson touch on the many ways to show your partner how much you care, and give tips to improve the communication in your relationship. The two also share some unconventional advice to help you sidestep a variety of uncomfortable holiday questions from family members — Tis the season, after all.


Appreciation is like oral sex – You gotta give a little to get a little and this classic episode of Sex With Emily will tell you how!

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