Sex With Emily

We here at Sex With Emily are noticing a trend: you love to talk about threesomes and swinging! We fully support an adventurous sex life, but there are some dos and don’ts to the ins and outs of bringing a stranger into the mix. On today’s show, Emily is joined by show-favorite, Menace, and the two are setting the record straight on all things sex, dating, and masturbation by answering your emails and taking your calls!

How do you find a third for your threesome when you live in a small town? Are you ready for anal, but don’t know how to get started? Do you really need to disclose if your penis is uncut? Emily and Menace shed light on these quandaries and more. Plus, they reveal eight bold-faced lies about sex you really need to stop listening to. You may think you know, but you’ll have to tune in and find out!

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Welcome to Emily’s favorite month of the year! She and special guest Menace kick off May, the official Month of Masturbation, by taking your calls and getting to the heart of your issues and giving you a special challenge to make the most of this month’s theme.

Tune in for tips for taking you out of your mundane, routine masturbation habits. Also, they talk to a caller who wonders how he can please his self-professed asexual girlfriend and a woman who was surprised by her post-orgasmic tears. Plus, Emily gives a newbie some solid blow-job tips and convinces a guy that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with his wearing thong underwear. Click, subscribe and get in on the action!

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Having the courage to ask questions shows that you care about improving your life; whether it’s your love or sex life, you’ve identified something that just isn’t going right, and you want it to be better. On today’s show, Emily is answering all of your quandaries to help give you the knowledge you need for a life full of loving—both in and out of the bedroom.

This week, Emily is joined by Menace, and the two discuss proper nude etiquette when it comes to swapping photos with potential swing partners, the importance of foreplay (even though you’re wetter than a slip ‘n’ slide) and whether you should tell your fiancé about a sexual slip you made when you were on a break. Plus, there’s a scientific reason that sex with your ex just feels so damn good. Don’t miss it!

Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Vibratex, System JO, FT London and Adam & Eve. 

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When it comes to sex and dating, it can be hard to tell where you’ve gone wrong. You may think you’re speaking the language of love, but are you speaking the right one? On today’s show, Emily is giving her expert advice on common sex and dating dilemmas to get you headed in the right direction for great sex!

Should you be concerned if your boyfriend ISN’T masturbating? How do you give a killer blowjob when your mouth’s too small and he’s too big? When’s the right time to stop the casual dating and dive back into something serious? Emily and Menace give their insight on these issues and more, including which emojis will most likely get a you a text back! Listen in and find out!

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One thing that sex, love and dating have in common is doubt. We’re all wondering if we’re doing it right, or how we can make it better. On today’s show, Emily is back on the hotline, taking your calls to help you go from confused to confident. Her insight brings sanity to your most complex questions.


Are you feeling guilty about your sneaky masturbating habits? How do you change up cowgirl position to make sexy AND comfortable? How do you know you’re ready to get back into dating after a divorce? Are mental health hurdles holding you back from finding something meaningful? Emily helps callers with these issues and more, plus she gives you tips to prioritize sex when sleep seems to have taken over the bedroom entirely. This is a show you won’t want to hit snooze on!

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Emily and special guest Dr. Drew do what they love doing best: taking listener calls! In this week’s show, Emily and Drew get to the bottom of each caller’s issues, helping them solve their love, sex and relationship worries.

The two experts address common condom conundrums (how to stay hard!) and how to meet in the middle when it comes to mismatched libidos. Also, does your guy get his ideas of what sex should be like from watching too much porn and spending too much time masturbating? Are you stuck in a cycle of loving someone who has you in the friend zone, and if so, how do you move on? These specialists provide skillful responses to your most compelling questions, and have a lot of fun while doing it. Join us!

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Dating apps; so many people use them, yet the stigma still remains. The hook-up culture linked to the world of swiping leaves some feeling defeated or desperate, but single people in search of love or company keep coming back! There has to be some success…right? On today’s show, Emily is diving deep into why we bother with online dating, as well as answering some of your most perplexing sex questions!


How do you dominate your partner in bed? What can you do when your partner has a fear of semen? How do you get your man to stop asking you that cringing “did you cum” question? Emily gives her expert advice on these coital conundrums and more. Plus, she reveals some surprising stats on dating apps that might just make you reconsider their unsavory reputation. Join us!

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Pat yourselves on the backs, lovers; so many of you are kicking your bad habits to the curb and making better choices for a better sex life! On today’s Quickie, Emily shares even more of the Spring Cleaning responses she loved so much, and (drum roll, please!) reveals the contest winner! Who’s adding a Magic Wand to their sex toy collection? Find out!

Whether you’re trying to keep stress from ruining your sex life, breaking the bad habit of faking orgasms or you just want to spend more time in between your wife’s legs, this Quickie was created with you in mind! Emily gives her insight on these Spring Cleaning promises and more. Tune in and get inspired!

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Ahh, soulmates. Wouldn’t it be nice if finding “the one” was as magical as rom-coms and fairy tales make it out to be? Although Cinderella and Prince Charming supposedly lived happily ever after, their sex life was probably one thing they had to work on like any normal couple—without the help of Cinderella’s fairy godmother.


On today’s show, Emily is acting as your own personal fairy godmother with tips and tricks to help your sexual relationships grow stronger and sexier, whatever your situation might be! Need some Dirty Talk 101? How about tips to navigate an open marriage? Is there any way to get your girlfriend on board with tossing her salad? She tackles these burning sex questions and more—plus she reveals why believing in a soulmate might be the reason your sex life is fizzling out. Join us!

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Sex and dating is complicated. From exes, to dating to orgasms, it can be a lot to process. On today’s show, Emily is answering your questions about everything in the love department to show you how you can simplify the dating game, so you always come out a winner!

Also, what really makes a guy a great lover? How do you get your brain aboard the sex train? What tactics can you use to hook a hottie at the gym? Emily gives you her tried and true advice on these sex and dating queries, plus yet another scientific reason (science!) men need to focus on the female orgasm—as if there weren’t enough reasons already! Don’t miss this show packed with solid advice on how to up your dating and sex skill set.

Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this podcast FREE: Blue Apron, System JO, Magic Wand and Adam and Eve.

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