Sex With Emily
We've all been placed in the dreaded "Friend Zone',  but consider this your last time. This weeks show is about how to get out of the Friend Zone, because let's face it, you'd rather be lovers than BFF's. Emily and Menace give tips about how to create distance, confidence and how to let her or him know that it's a date not a hang out. Menace talks about his time spent in the friend zone and how he got out of it.
Emily and Menace don't miss San Francisco that much, and the share the perks and pitfalls of their nee Los Angeles location. They update the sex in the news with topics about Robin Thick and T.I.'s marriage scandals, "The Real Housewives" criminal charges, what happens when you sue your prostitute, how "Teen Mom" is a great birth control for the younger generation, and the real dangers of having a cellphone (and the rules Menace has to protect himself). 
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Emily's been spotted on the popular Tinder dating app. The app is all the rage as you swipe left of right to "like" or "reject" a prospect. If they like you too, it's a match. Some call it 'the hook up' app and yet others have found true love.  Too busy with work, yet always with her iPhone Emily joins the app and brings in her Tinder date to the studio for the first live date ever during the podcast. Anderson comes up with a code phrase in case the date's a bust. Her date, "Chad", isn't afraid to get into his past, voice his opinion (about everything....) and give Emily a hard time. The two get into marriage, why relationships fail and sex as you age. Chad reveals secrets about his past and Emily shares her dating patterns.

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Menace is Back! Emily and Menace are back together in the studio and happy to be in Los Angeles. Emily answers listener emails including questions regarding mismatched libidos - what to do when your partner wants more sex than you, a man who has trouble with older women, and trying to speed up the pace of a relationship- good or bad idea? Tinder is the dating app (some say it's a hook-up app) and Emily has been spotted on it! They talk about the rules of the explosive new app. Menace opens up about his secret 3 year relationship and claims Emily knew her once upon a time... Emily and Menace talk about kids and marriage. Menace has something stuck in his penis and the hospital has to take it out (Get ready to cringe!). 

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English professor turned gay pornstar, Conor Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Conor tells us about his first gay experience on and off set. They talk about the rise in anal sex in college co eds. Conor talks about his petition against censorship in the popular app Vine (is Twitter next?). The scientfic hoax behind masterbation shame is revealed.  Conor interjects in the circumsised debate by describing how he's got "the best of both worlds". The duo wraps up with Los Angeles  vs. San Francisco dating scenes and the biggest (and surprising!) drug found on porn sets.
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If you're still figuring out how to flirt, you're not alone. WingGirl Marni Kinrys and Comedian Kristen Carney from the Ask Women Podcast join me on this podcast episode to breakdown the art of flirting. 

Marni is a professional wing girl- she teaches men how to flirt and start successful relationships. She reveals secrets from her Wing Girl Method, which will make women want you. 

Kristen is a professional sketch comedienne, actress and host whose work has apperead on Comedy Central, Funny or Die, TLC and her new YouTube channel: See You Next Tues Comedy.

So many men fall into the dreaded "Friend Zone" because they're nervous and will agree with everything women say instead of setting themselves apart as an interesting person. Don't be afraid to challenge women's viewpoints. Speak up when you have an opinion. After all, it's not called witty banter for nothing. Most women truly value personality more than looks. A conventionally unattractive man can become sexy with a great personality and confidence. You'll learn how to show a woman the best version of yourself on this show. 
This podcast isn't just for the men, Kristen and Marni also give advice to women. Find out which guys you should give a second chance to and which guys deserve the boot. 
Finally, we all talk about sex! After you learn how to flirt, you're going to want to learn how to properly seal the deal. 
If you want to learn more about Marni's Wing Girl Method for making women want you, visit


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Today, we fast-forward to the good parts with Mr. Skin! Mr. Skin came into inform you about the best of the best from the 15th annual Anatomy Awards. We talk about 1930s porn, why we love naked celebs, what makes a good sex scene, and the best nude scenes to look forward to in 2014. We find out which unexpected American sweetheart won the best nip slip of 2013 and the best lesbian scene you've ever seen. We close our session together with talk of faux clam in film, the best "back burger", monster muff and of course, long nipples.

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Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings.

Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting.

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