Sex With Emily

It happens to the best of us: We get caught in a sexual rut and can’t seem to wriggle ourselves free to a more exciting sex life. This show is all about embracing the kinkier side of sex, and opening your mind up to new realms of sexual adventure!


Emily is joined by Rhune Kincaid and Lindsay Floyd, fellow members of the Loveline family, and the hilarious minds behind the Pretty Oddcast - a fresh new Podcast that takes a look into alternate lifestyles & fringe sub-cultures.

So what IS kinky sex? Kink means anything outside of your usual sex box, that pushes your sexual limits, and breaks you out of your regular routine. And guess what, guys? It doesn’t have to be scary!

Emily gives us a crash course in Kink 101 (note: you don’t need a sex dungeon to have some kinky fun.) She shares some beginners’ tips for mixing things up in the bedroom, including:


  • Ways to give a really good spanking

  • The trick to kinking up an old-fashioned massage

  • The best sex toys for couples to share

  • Why women love playing : dress up

  • How to get down with dirty talk

Everyone’s got a little kink in them, or the desire to update their sexual bag of tricks - all you need is a sense of adventure. This podcast will help you get in touch with your inner “odd” and explore sex from an alternative point of view!

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In this week’s Podcast, Emily takes her show on the road.. Literally! Joined by two leading experts in the sex therapy field, Emily records this show live from Catalyst Con, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality.

Whether because they are the uneducated or just plain uncomfortable, people treat sex like the elephant in the room. No one talks about what’s going on between the sheets. But if you can’t talk about it with your doctor, or even with the person you’re having sex with, how the hell can it ever get better? This show is all about breaking down your sexual barriers and opening up those lines of communication to pave the way to amazing sex!


Up first is Dr. Hernando Chaves, renowned sex therapist and sexy professor. He and Emily discuss many of the sexual roadblocks that men and women face, including body image, stamina and being too stuck in their own heads. Then Emily sits down with popular love-and-sexologist Ava Cadell, here to tackle the most common question she gets asked: How can couples keep the passion alive?


From anal sex to penis insecurities to the bowl of sex toys on Hernando’s table, this show touches on the things we’re all too shy to talk about. Don’t miss it!

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Today’s show is all about sexual confidence: How do you get it, how do you work it, and how do you become a star in the bedroom? Emily is joined in the studio by Robin Antin to talk dancing and sex appeal, two things she knows all about! So what IS sexy? Emily and Robin share their personal secrets to sexiness, and tell us how to discover our inner sex appeal!

Emily gets to know her guest, the founder of the “Pussycat Dolls”, choreographer, producer, director, designer, entrepreneur and all-around sex-positive bombshell, Robin Antin. The two dish about all things sexy, and discuss the number one thing killing women’s sex lives: your lack of sexual confidence. The ladies explain why having sex is a lot like performing - as soon as you hit that stage (aka the bedroom) you must push past your insecurities and work what you’ve got!


This show teaches you how to achieve ultimate sexiness, from fitness to style to the best sex toys on the market! It also answers some sexier questions: How does one do a sexy squat? Is there a Pussycat Sex-Doll in our future? And can Emily turn Robin into a sex toy believer?

All this and more in the latest Sex With Emily podcast!

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Emily has special guest Candida Royalle on the show, a sex-positive pioneer in the adult film industry and the original inventor of couples’ erotica. They cover a variety of topics, including Candida’s ground breaking company, Femme Productions, the ever-changing adult industry, the benefits of couples’ porn and tips to becoming sexually empowered.

From female insecurities to male’s penis complexes, Emily and Candida discuss recurring conflicts surrounding mainstream pornography. Men love it, but their often girlfriends hate it, so how do you make everyone happy? The women weigh in on why watching porn together might just be the solution to your porn problems. And thanks to Candida, there is erotica out there that couples’ can both enjoy!

Candida tells us about her journey from on-screen star to a female-friendly filmmaker. How did this sexy starlet with a hardcore art habit turn into one of the first female porn directors? She describes the perfect storm that led to the creation of Femme Productions, erotica with a plot, a story-line and positive sex role-modeling.

The two also touch on the topic of sexual empowerment: What is it and how can more women get it? They answer the question all women need to know: How DO you tell a naked man what to do? For starters, you’re not directing traffic! The duo gives scripts to get what you want in the bedroom. Also, Emily helps a listener with her sexual confidence and Candida shares an upcoming project that’s close to her heart: 'While You Were Gone: the Untold Story of Candida Royalle’.

From sex toys to fantasies to the one thing that men and women REALLY want sexually, Emily and Candida have tips to help you embrace your sexuality, and take control of your sex life. All this and more in the latest Sex With Emily podcast.

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This week’s show is all about the secret to your sexual powers, your sex drive! Emily talks about how to get the amount of sex you crave and what to do when your libido takes a dive. She covers some of the lesser known sex issues, including a woman with a secret porn habit, a few ladies whose husbands aren’t into sex, and a man who divorces his wife over her insatiable sexual appetite.


Throughout the show, Emily tackles common misconceptions and gives you the real sex drive facts. Whether you’re male or female, older or younger, you can have a fulfilling sex life. Just commit to a sex date and make it happen.


Emily explains why you must know your relationship limits: How do you know when to call it quits? She advises a listener with a stagnant sex life, and helps a woman whose post-baby sex life is less than satisfactory.


From mismatched libidos to mismatched desires to the best ways to spice up your married sex life, this episode addresses the most common sex drive challenges and answers a few unexpected questions! Don’t miss out on the latest Sex With Emily podcast.

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Do you really want to send that nude selfie? If you don’t want the “The Fappening” happening to you, you better tune in.  Emily and Samantha Schacher from Dr. Drew HLN dive right into the mass exposure of A-List celebrity nude pictures hacked from the cloud and what we can all learn from this debacle.

With our heads buried in our phones, have we become social media zombies? Samantha tells the story of how she literally ran smack dab into her husband when they first met, but if she had been on her phone, she might have missed the encounter all together.

Samantha gives sage advice about tough times, dry spells and how to keep the passion alive in marriage, even when you own a business together. Sometimes fighting is a necessity to reach the next level of intimacy in your relationship.

A caller wants to know why he can’t seem to pick-up women and it probably has to do with his opening line. Emily tells him how to turn it around.

A listener writes in confused about a “Friends with Benefits” relationship while another listener with pre-existing self-esteem issues has a bodybuilder boyfriend who’s preying on her insecurities. If you want to know how to date with dignity in the modern age of nudies, stale pick up lines and casual hook ups, tune in now.

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In today’s Podcast, Emily and Anderson are teaming up to help you succeed in the dating game, and satisfy your sexual needs! They answer listener emails, cover some of the do’s and don’ts of dating, and address some common dating misconceptions.

Before they jump into some sex in the news, Emily has some news of her own. She’s ready to take her own advice and jump back into dating, which means you can look forward to more tales from the Emily dating files. Speaking of which, Emily recounts her most recent (and completely bizarre) blind date experience, which leads her to some key advice for what NOT to do on a date.

This Podcast answers some major dating questions: How important are looks, really? How do you impress the ladies? And what state has the best potential for finding you next hookup? They’ve got the tips, and then some.

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